3. Each party must respect

When the husband or wife to enter his house, then he deserves respect and appreciation from their partner. It aims to maintain the dignity and raise the prestige of couples, so that each feels comfortable to build a harmonious household. In this case, couples have an obligation to look for positive points which each is to be used as the support of mutual respect.

4. Trying to please his partner

In family life, even in social life in general, if someone tries to promote and give priority to other people than himself, it means he has planted the seeds of love and closeness to all the people around him.

Thus, each couples are advised to always please his partner, and the prioritization and mengutamakannya from himself, for the sake of strengthening the bond of love between them. The reason is, when the husband saw the wife devoted herself to please him, would he have to do something that could make the heart glad and happy wife. This was done to repay her, or at least recognition of such kindness.

5. Overcoming common problems

Marriage is a form of partnership relations and participation. Partnership which stands on the foundation of common goals, ideals, attitudes, intuition and feelings, as well as collaboration and solidarity in solving every problem. Any problems that arise in the lives of husband and wife, then the problem is viewed as a collective anxiety.

The paradigm thus triggering her husband for trying to work hard in order to give glorious life for his wife and children. Even so, the wife will try to run the affairs of the household in accordance with agreed procedures. Efforts made by the husband and wife is a solution to solve the problem together. Even so, both husband and wife should not hide the problem, even honesty and transparency is needed in order to grow the seeds of trust and mutual understanding, making it easy to find a solution. Could be, the problem has a positive impact to strengthen ties husband and wife.

6. Attitudes qana'ah

Among the signs of harmony in love is the attitude of couples were satisfied with the existing (qana'ah); were satisfied with the available infrastructure of life. Continuing the spoiled attitudes, habits of life department, wasteful and dissipate in childhood or adolescence, including one of the factors that trigger conflict couples. Thus in contrast to the attitude of maturity that demands realistic outlook on life. Hack things and glamorous media heralded publication will not actually create happiness. Because true happiness emanating from the deepest heart and soul, not the opposite of those aspects of the material that actually trigger gap and conflict couples.

7. The attitude of tolerance on both sides

It is not logical if each party expects a permanent ideal behavior of their partners in domestic relationships, because according to the temperament, and true human being sometimes wrong. Husband or wife sometimes forget and make mistakes so often repeated error and mistake. He may make mistakes because of ignorance, and repeating it without realizing it. If any party wishes to punish, judge, or take revenge for any mistakes made by her partner, it means that he is destroying the foundations of domestic harmony.

If we denounce all things, then we will not find anything that is not our fault. Making mistakes is a common thing that only requires the alignment, steering, and guidance, coupled with an attitude of regret and desire for change for the better. Mistakes do not need to be followed by pressure, insults, and intimidation, especially if the error was not related to Islamic norms. Rest assured that someone will not run out the appropriate way to correct the errors and irregularities partner. The best way in this regard is the quiet advice and makes her partner feel that it is for the good of themselves and their families.

8. Be frank

Frank attitude, honesty, and courage is the key to happiness domestic life that can not be nil from mistakes. In that sense, if you make a mistake, then you have to do is rushing to apologize, dare to admit it, and promised not to repeat it again in the future. Attitude does not however mean that outraged the status and your self-esteem. This remark encourages others to respect, trust, and forgive you.

9. Concern and solidarity

Fragment of the most beautiful part of family life is of concern and solidarity that dilakoni husband or wife in the face of difficulties with patience and tremendous struggle. When the wife was standing beside her husband, the husband will feel strong and confident, and vice versa. When a wife or husband feel that their partners feel strong and confident, then he will feel his soul filled with peace and tranquility. This side is in fact the inner essence of marriage and integration between the two sides.

10. Wisdom

Wisdom with each other-until the situation is most grim-helped lay the solid foundation harmony. Could be, because of an error, husband or wife has a great ability to harm his partner, simply just stop doing it wisdom. Wisdom strengthen the spirit of understanding between the two. Or one of two couples may feel more entitled in certain circumstances, but after re-think about it, he no longer keukeuh defend his opinion that could lead to friction.

When he resigned with the motive of wisdom, then he means eliminate the smell of conflict and strife. However, if the selfish attitude and negative superiority replace the position of wisdom, then the establishment of peace and domestic life will be marred. If so, would not be surprised if the problem turns over. Thus, wisdom is a sturdy fortress that protects families from disharmony.

Source:voa-islam.com